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Wife in accident!!! separated……?
My wife and I are separated. She moved out 2 months ago and wants nothing to do with me. I have tried reaching out. I dont cheat or abuse her. Just normal marital problems.
She is in Dallas on school break and is staying with her girlfriends and having a ball and not wanting to even talk to me.
Last friday she got rear ended and the car over heated. I was concerened and called 2 times aday and text twice each day to check up on her. Monday she said ” I told you before i need space , so stop texting and calling me im okay……you dont respect that i need space….” I didnt respond to this madness.
Wednesday she text me saying she just came from the doctor and he said she needed 2 months of Chiropractic care. I responded hours later with ” Im sorry. Hope all goes well. Let me know”. I didnt want to say more that required least im told to stop blowing her phone again.
Next day she is texting asking if ive gone to post office. I responded ” yes” hours later. Then she texts me thanking me and asking if i could leave the mail in the post office box so she could find it there when she returned next week. I responded a simple ” k”.
Today she has text me saying the car shop says the car is written off.
Hours later i text back asking ” so insurance will get you a new car”
She immediately responded saying that insuarnce has to pay Titlemax what was owed on the car( for a loan taken out against it) and then estimate its worth and give her that. Which might not be much. It was a beautiful truck with tinted windows but was over ten years old.
I havent responded back as to wheather she needs a ride back ( 5 hrs away) to our little town from Dallas this sunday or not.
I sense a little humbling. What do you think?
11 minutes ago – 4 days left to answer.
#1 by MarcThyme on May 20th, 2011
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The fact that you “sense her being humbled” does quite a lot (I’m sorry to tell you) to explain why she left you. She’s a grown-up, she’ll be fine….and you should probably grow up a little, too…
#2 by Nicole on May 20th, 2011
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Listen when she says she needs space she means it. So keep on doing what you are doing and don’t text or call her till she calls you. I went through this with my ex. He would call and text me all day when I told him I needed space. It made me so angry when he didn’t do what I asked and made me hate him. But as soon as he stopped calling and texting I felt rejected so I started calling and texting him.
#3 by HDRIDER on May 20th, 2011
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Let her take care of her own problems!